Do men need advice when it comes to keeping their relationships healthy? Indeed they do. What is it that men who want long term, healthy relationships need to know? Sociologists give us some valuable insight.
An important lesson for men is this: Don't listen to what your woman says she wants. Instead, observe her actions. Her actions will tell you what it is she really wants. What do we mean by that? Well, think of some ways women act that indicates the difference. For instance, look at the kind of men they choose.
A woman might say: I want a man who is a good listener. But she chooses a man who dominates the conversation. Or, she might say: The most important thing in a man is a sense of humor. But she only dates guys who have money.
That surely makes a man ask why a woman would say one thing, but act in an opposite way. The answer, my friends, is because there are subconscious motivators that get men and women together. And that is a huge part of the relationship advice men need to know.
Sociologists tell us the reason men and women get together is to keep the human race going. In other words, pregnancy may be the last thing on her conscious mind, but when she evaluates a prospective husband on a subconscious level, she's looking for a good father. And that means someone who will provide for her children. She is looking for someone who she can rely on to bring home the bacon.
Sociologists teach us while a man can produce thousands of sperm on repeated occasions throughout his adult life, a woman only has about 400 chances of producing a baby. As a result, they are looking for a man who can provide longevity and stability for their babies. A man who tells a woman he is a lawyer and not a paralegal will have a better chance of landing her. That is because she perceives that a lawyer is a better provider for her future children. But having a good income is not enough. A woman needs to perceive that a man is generous with his resources and will provide for her children. That is why women place such a high value on gifts such as jewelry.
This is something men may not understand about the engagement ring. The engagement ring is not just a romantic gesture, it is an outward display that a man will provide for the woman and her children. Thus she wants a large purchase.
Further, even though modern humans make more money from their brains than their brawn, women are still programmed to think of strength equaling the ability to provide. Thats why, even when there is evidence to the contrary, the woman is hardwired to choose the lineman over the computer geek.
So, the biggest piece of relationship advice sociologists have for men is to figure out, after thousands of years of conditioning, what women really want. And then give it to her. - 18193
An important lesson for men is this: Don't listen to what your woman says she wants. Instead, observe her actions. Her actions will tell you what it is she really wants. What do we mean by that? Well, think of some ways women act that indicates the difference. For instance, look at the kind of men they choose.
A woman might say: I want a man who is a good listener. But she chooses a man who dominates the conversation. Or, she might say: The most important thing in a man is a sense of humor. But she only dates guys who have money.
That surely makes a man ask why a woman would say one thing, but act in an opposite way. The answer, my friends, is because there are subconscious motivators that get men and women together. And that is a huge part of the relationship advice men need to know.
Sociologists tell us the reason men and women get together is to keep the human race going. In other words, pregnancy may be the last thing on her conscious mind, but when she evaluates a prospective husband on a subconscious level, she's looking for a good father. And that means someone who will provide for her children. She is looking for someone who she can rely on to bring home the bacon.
Sociologists teach us while a man can produce thousands of sperm on repeated occasions throughout his adult life, a woman only has about 400 chances of producing a baby. As a result, they are looking for a man who can provide longevity and stability for their babies. A man who tells a woman he is a lawyer and not a paralegal will have a better chance of landing her. That is because she perceives that a lawyer is a better provider for her future children. But having a good income is not enough. A woman needs to perceive that a man is generous with his resources and will provide for her children. That is why women place such a high value on gifts such as jewelry.
This is something men may not understand about the engagement ring. The engagement ring is not just a romantic gesture, it is an outward display that a man will provide for the woman and her children. Thus she wants a large purchase.
Further, even though modern humans make more money from their brains than their brawn, women are still programmed to think of strength equaling the ability to provide. Thats why, even when there is evidence to the contrary, the woman is hardwired to choose the lineman over the computer geek.
So, the biggest piece of relationship advice sociologists have for men is to figure out, after thousands of years of conditioning, what women really want. And then give it to her. - 18193
About the Author:
Antonio MacGynn contributes to About the Family, a blog dedicated to family issues. He has learned that most broken relationships can be repaired, but can't be done without understanding the subconscious motivators that get couples together. Unfortunately, most people who want to repair their relationships instinctively do exactly the wrong thing. Avoid the wrong steps and Repair the Relationship.
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